Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Something to say after a 2-hour-long conversation

2 comments:

  1. Amazingly! Two hours! She must be a talkative girl and you must be a patient listener! Keeping curious about the speaker really helps raise a bunch of nice questions. Also, pay attention to what the like to talk and try to give her space to show her thoughts. I strongly agree and appreciate "low level conservation talking about people, medium conversation talking about event and high level conversation talking about ideas."
    Considering your "dressing" question, I think her answer answers your question directly and perspicuously. I like the way she answer your question.
    At last, I think learn how to end or stop the conversation politely can improve the standard of talking in a large extent. Talking more, asking more will help develop greater conversation skills.

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  2. Wow! Congratulations! I can see you made a great conversation with your friend simply from the time the conversation lasted. I tremendously appreciate the way you talk with your friend, and maybe it is the reason she admires you as well.

    Like Zhou, I appreciate what you said "low level conservation talking about people, medium conversation talking about event and high level conversation talking about ideas."

    In addition, straight forward is a vital element in most of the conversations. Generally, it is difficult for us to talk about our truth feelings, expect to the person who you are quite familiar with. However, only when you share your heart with your listener, he or she could also pour out his or her real thought without hiding.

    All in all, I think you are a good listener and this is a very successful conversation. Best wishes for you guys.

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